By Andrea Pisac - 30 Comments - January 25, 2022 min read

Let me tell you a secret about Croatian people.

If you’re planning to visit Croatia or are already Googling the best things to do in Croatia, know this…

Meeting Croatian people is the country’s top attraction. It’s the most memorable, most immersive and most rewarding experience you’ll have on your travels.

Making friends with Croatian people

It’s actually the one and only thing that will turn you into a raving fan of Croatia.

Why? Because visiting Croatia is double special if you meet the locals.

Croatian people have the best travel intel

Remember the last time a friend persuaded you to go and visit some place. Which stories hooked you in most? Was it the one about nice buildings? No, I didn’t think so.

But when your friend told you about going fishing with this local guy, and how his wife then made a scrumptious fish stew… yes, your eyes lit up. You were sold.

And you had every reason to be. Because we all want meaningful travel experiences. And parachuting in and out of a country like any old tourist doesn’t cut it any more.

Especially not in Croatia. Sure, you can have a week of the sun and the sea galore. You can whizz through our gorgeous national parks, or drink good wine in a good restaurant.

But…

If you’re lucky enough to meet a Croatian person along the way – you’ll unlock a whole new dimension of Croatia. You see, this is the country where information, as well as emotion, lives in close-knit communities.

So, if you want to find out what are the best things to do in Croatia, the ones that will blow your mind and touch your heart, you need word-of-mouth intel. And the only way to get it is through making friends with Croatian people.

Now, here’s the problem.

IT’S REALLY DIFFICULT TO MEET CROATIAN PEOPLE ON A SHORT TRIP

With throngs of tourists arriving here every year, most of us can’t wait for the season to be over. (and for you to go back to your home – oops!)

If you tried to strike up a conversation with a Croatian person and failed, don’t worry – it’s not your fault. Most of us are terrible at small talk. And most of us don’t get you when you offer us a random kind smile. (why the heck is this guy laughing at me???)

If you want to get friendly with Croatian people, you need a different approach. The one that I’m going to teach you here. So, in a moment, I’ll show you the quick and easy way to meet your first Croatian local.

But before we start, there’s one thing you need to know. Croats are far better at forming deep bonds than at casually chatting to people.

Without understanding this first, you won’t be able to follow along. So let’s dig deeper into what are Croatian people like.

I have more posts on Croatian culture here.

The one and only thing you need to know to make friends with Croats

I once asked my readers a simple question: Croats are rude – yes or no?

(Go ahead, answer it yourself and drop me a line in the comments below.)

The final result took me by surprise – it was a tie.

Some people had their holiday ruined ‘because Croats didn’t smile’ and ‘customer service was sh*t’. Others claimed we were the warmest people in the world. Wow! What’s going on here?

Just bear with me. We’ll solve the riddle in a moment.

You see, there are three types of connections we make with people around us: acquaintances, casual friends and best friends. Many psychology books describe our social life through the metaphor of concentric circles.

Making friends with Croatian people

Our social life in Croatia and elsewhere

We’re at the centre, surrounded by a small number of close friends, which is embraced by a larger group of casual friends, which is immersed in a wider world of contacts.

This is all good and true – up to a point. Can you guess what’s missing? Yes, the picture doesn’t show how different cultures value those circles.

A FRIEND IN CROATIAN IS NOT THE SAME AS A FRIEND IN ENGLISH

For example, the English word friend translates into the Croatian prijatelj with no problems. But if a friend and a prijatelj come together, without knowing what I’m about to show you, they can get their wires crossed in all kinds of ways.

This happened to me when I expected a British friend to water my plants while I was away. Silly me!

So, take a look at this comparison and notice the difference.

Making friends with Croatian people

Our social life in Croatia and elsewhere

Croatian people invest most of their time and emotion into the inner circle. They make close friends early on in life and stick to their tribe. It’s warm and fuzzy inside because Croats walk an extra mile for their close friends.

Over in the English-speaking world, a large network of contacts is the strongest social currency. When I’m in London, I always notice how much time people devote to casual acquaintances. They give everyone a chance, they obsessively exchange business cards, because you never know who can help you move up in life.

Once I asked a British person how often he sees his best friend. He replied: quite often, maybe 4-5 times a year.

CROATIAN PEOPLE ARE RUDE – YES OR NO?

Let’s get back to solving the riddle of Croatian rudeness.

Croats are rude? No way.

When you make friends with Croatian people, they’ll go above and beyond to help you. You’ll always be able to count on their heartfelt generosity and honesty.

Croats are rude? Heck yes.

If you stay dabbling in a Croat’s outer circle, expect a lukewarm response. Heck, expect even a few stroppy replies. Especially when you’re a customer and someone is having a bad day. We don’t see a point in pleasantries.

I know, I’ve taken you on a long winded journey. And you’re probably wondering: Andrea, why on earth should I care about Croatian personality traits if I’m here only for a short while.

OK, hear me out.

Maybe you’re not after finding a best friend in Croatia, but this is your route to having any kind of friend in Croatia. Once you break the ice, dive deeper. This is where we keep our care, devotion, pleasantries – and, of course, a smile.

Now you have your what (your goal): make friends with Croatian people. And your why: so you can have the best possible time here. The next step is how.

How do you break the ice when the ice is an iceberg?

Simply follow my quick and easy strategy.

1 | Get to know just one Croat before you arrive

Knowing a single Croat can open more doors for you than chatting to a bunch of locals in the street. If you know someone who knows someone in Croatia – jump on the chance to get introduced.

Making friends with Croatian people

Line up one Croat before arriving in the country

This one Croatian local will let you in because they are a friend of a friend of your friend. Log into this network and enjoy the bandwidth. There is no more need to break the ice because you’re already in. Your local’s friends are suddenly your friends. And you already know what that means.

You’ll discover the best things to do in Croatia. You might get invited to a Croat’s home. You’ll have a blast. (You can thank me later.)

Connect with Croatian people in diaspora

Did you know there are Croatian communities all over the world. A few million of 1st, 2nd, 3rd generation Croats living in the USA, Canada, Australia, Great Britain, New Zealand, Germany, Ireland, Chile, Argentina…

Now it’s time to tap into your wide circle of contacts. There’s bound to be one Croat among them who can hook you up with a local.

Meet that local online. Chat, ask questions, seek advice. But make sure you don’t stop there. If you want to make true friends, you must meet in person. There’s no better way to solidify a bond with a Croat than to drink coffee together.

Connect with people who’ve traveled in Croatia

Find someone who’s already been to Croatia. Maybe they made friends during their visit? Ask for that introduction and get online.

ACTION POINT: Join my Facebook group Croatia Insider and meet genuine Croatia fans there. It’s a community where we share tips and tricks about the the Croatian way of life, so whatever question you have – we have an answer.

2 | Start the small talk at the right places

Travel bloggers often rave about social apps for making friends with the locals. In many places this approach works like a charm. In Croatia – it doesn’t!

You see, a tool invented in the USA doesn’t work in the same way around the globe. Travel is all about discovering different places. But what gives a place its appeal if not the local people?

OK, so what can you do if you haven’t lined up your one Croat before you arrive?

Get talking to Croatian people in real-life situations. This is the only way small talking will lead to a meaningful connection.

Now, you’re facing three challenges.

One, Croats chit-chat in a different way to the English-speaking people. If you don’t know the rules, the locals may seem aloof to you. Two, the best situations for breaking the ice are not what you think. And third, Croatian people who hang out together are almost always close friends. They are so immersed in their inner circle, you’ll have a difficult time getting your foot in.

You don’t want your opening line with a Croat to feel like a cold sales call, right? So…

HANG OUT IN A CAFE DURING DAYTIME

Try to engage a local in the so called ‘over the table’ conversation. You’ll still be up against a group of good friends because Croatian people never drink coffee on their own.

Making friends with Croatian people

Over the table conversation in a cafe

But if you sit near their table and casually drop a line or two, you’ll get their attention. Better yet, ask a question or two about their city. Croatian people love helping others. At that point, gently turn your chair towards their table and you’re on your way to chatting.

ATTEND LOCAL EVENTS WHERE PEOPLE ARE NOT SITTING DOWN

Once a Croat is seated, they won’t budge from their friends. Go to open-air festivals where people are moving around. Or where there is queuing to get a drink.

This time, you can turn around and drop a casual comment to the person behind you. ‘What a great event’… or ‘I’d love to try a local beer, can you give me some suggestions’… or ‘what’s that local band playing, I love the sound of it’…

AVOID BREAKING THE ICE IN A NOISY BAR

Croatian people don’t go out to meet new people but to have a good time with their close friends. If you only have this opportunity, do this…

Park yourself at a bar near the toilette. (Everyone needs to go at some point during the night, right?). Wait for one Croat to leave the company of their mates. When they walk past you on their way back, strike a conversation. Use similar topics: local beer suggestions, music… etc.

MAKE ONE PLACE YOUR OWN

Pick a cafe, a bakery, a shop – and visit every day. As a tourist, you’ll be tempted to see as many different places as possible. Resist that. Visit your haunt every day until people there begin to recognize your face. Then start talking to them.

PICK TO GO ON LESS POPULAR TOURIST TOURS

Imagine, if you’re exploring something with only 3-4 other travelers, the local guide will be more approachable. Ask them questions beyond the tour topic. Be inquisitive. There is a big chance such a guide will take you up on an offer to have drinks afterwards.

ACTION POINT: Avoid socializing only with other foreigners in Croatia. If you start like this, it will be difficult to branch out to Croatian people. Many expats in Croatia also struggle with making friends with the locals.

3| Small talk in the right way

Once you’ve broken the ice, then comes the tricky part. Croatian small talk! You can read my complete (and funny!) case study here.

An English-speaking person can quickly conclude that Croatian people don’t know how to small talk. Actually we do, but we use small talk to bond with friends we already have.

You see the problem? We always come back to that inner circle.

As an outsider, you’ll need to take the initiative, and in the right way. Get into the role of a journalist and start asking questions. Your Croatian locals will want to feel special and you can do that in a few ways…

BE ENTHUSIASTIC ABOUT CROATIA

Talk about your best impressions of the country so far. Compliment the food, the climate, the gorgeous countryside, the wonderful Adriatic Sea. Hint – Croatian people believe theirs is the most beautiful sea in the world.

show off your croatian culture

and dress in unique T-shirts and hoodies

pick from 3 different designs featuring Croatian interlace, Croatian tattoo symbols, Glagolitic letters and the Croatian checkerboard Šahovnica.

BE CAREFUL WITH COMPARISONS

Let’s say you landed in Croatia after having traveled in Italy. Now you want to express your admiration for olive oil or prosciutto because you know this is also the staple food in Croatia.

You are, of course, being enthusiastic. But a Croat could turn into a prickly pear. You are making comparisons whereas everyone on the planet knows that the Croatian olive oil is the best. Ouch!

NEVER CRITICIZE CROATIA

An hour into your chit-chat, Croatian people will probably say something critical about their country. This doesn’t work, that is broken… This is not an invitation for you to agree. Croats have the right to complain, you as a foreigner don’t. Instead, ask more questions… ‘How so?’… or ‘Is this really what happens?’…

SHOW HOW MUCH YOU KNOW ABOUT CROATIA

You don’t need to know a lot. Croatian people are used to not being in the center of the world’s attention. So even a small detail will do. Dig out something. Do you know a Croatian sports person? Have you heard of Nikola Tesla? Did you know that Marco Polo was born in Croatia? This is gold.

Making friends with Croatian people

Dig up everything your know about Croatia

AVOID POLITICS UNLESS …

You are well read on the history of the region. Croatian people will be keen to explain a complex situation and this may take hours. Maybe you won’t be interested in so many details. Maybe getting in the middle of a heated discussion will be too much. There is no simple when it comes to Croatian politics.

KEEP TAKING INITIATIVE

A good talk with Croatian people still doesn’t mean you’re in. Take further initiative and suggest the next meeting. Don’t just hand them your business card or say ‘we must do this again’. Be concrete and set the day for your next coffee.

ACTION POINT: if you’re staying longer in Croatia, make an effort to meet friends of your new friends. Get to know the whole inner circle quickly.

4 | Fit into the daily rituals of Croatian people

Every person has a daily ritual. Something unique or quirky. Cultures too live by collective daily rhythms. The sooner you learn a few that define Croatian people, the easier it gets to fit in.

CROATIAN PEOPLE HANG OUT IN CAFES

Let’s say you want to invite a local for drinks in the evening. You might say ‘let’s meet in this or that bar’… because back at your home people drink in bars. Croatian people drink coffee, and beer, and wine – in a cafe.

CROATIAN PEOPLE EAT BIG LUNCH

If you want to share food with your new Croatian friend, you might be off with your timing. Instead of inviting them out for dinner, suggest to grab lunch together. Or just say ‘let’s meet for a bite to eat’ and wait for them to name the time and the place.

DON’T GO OVERBOARD WITH SUGGESTING ACTIVITIES

In London I usually meet with friends to do stuff together. There, it’s normal, and it’s a way to bond.

Making friends with Croatian people

No activities, just spending time together to bond

Croatian people bond over food, drinks and lots of talking. On the surface, it seems we’re not doing anything. Unless you’re good friends with a Croat, don’t go suggesting ‘a lovely walk in the countryside’ for the sake of bonding. Embrace the 5 hour session of just being together.

PREFERABLY LEAVE SUNDAY ALONE

Ever wondered why Croatian cities seem deserted on a Sunday afternoon? Or why you can’t find a restaurant that’s open? Everyone is eating lunch with their family. This is a special time devoted to the most inner of circles. Leave it as it is.

BE SPONTANEOUS

When Croatian people invite you for coffee at, what to you seems, a very short notice – jump in. This is the secret of our close friendships. We make ourselves available to the inner circle. If you really can’t make that one coffee, be sure not to decline too many of such invitations.

ACTION POINT: When you’re suggesting to hang out together, don’t specify what and where. Let Croatian people do it.

5 | Become irresistible to Croatian people

You might think that all this strategy is necessary because Croatian people don’t like foreigners. But nothing could be further from the truth. We love foreigners, just not so much the tourists. When you single yourself out from that group, we’ll adore you like we do our friends.

And the single best way to do it is by speaking a bit of Croatian. We all know how difficult our language is. We don’t expect much. Just a few sentences.

Your pronunciation can be wrong, your declinations and conjugations can be non-existent, you can cross the line by addressing us informally too soon… Just start babbling the lingo!

Making friends with Croatian people

Brush up on your naughty Croatian to delight the locals

Do it with a cashier, a waiter or a random local and see the magic happen. You instantly change your status from being a customer to becoming a friend. Inner circle, remember?

One of my readers told me he once made a mistake with the correct type of hvala [thank you] – and we have so many! The result? He made a lifelong friend out of this Croatian person.

So go out and make mistakes with your Croatian. Even if you only have one sentence to show off with. You can then switch to English and say ne razumijem [I don’t understand]. This counts too.

Take it to the next level and learn some swear words. Oh, do Croatian people love to swear! And hearing a foreigner try to imitate us is double irresistible. Just be ready to speak words you’d never say to someone in your own language…

It’s your turn now.

Go out and make friends with Croatian people. You won’t regret it…

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      • Bok Andrea, I love your cookbook and your visitor guides. I just made Paprenjaci and got 200 hits on the Facebook page featuring My recipe and the wooden cookie molds from Croatia. My father is from Pozega, my grandfather is from Sveti Rok and my grandmother was from Mrkopalj. Last year I rented a car and drove to all three of my ancestral towns by myself. It was a fantastic 10 days. Everyone I met in Croatian was so wonderful and I have so many funny stories to tell. I’m returning next year to drive around Croatian with my girlfriend for three weeks. I’m trying to learn a little Croatian and especially the local specialties to order properly from the menu. Your information is Very helpful. Hvala vam puno! Barb Nemec

        • Thank so much, Barb. I am really glad to be part of your journey. Paprenjaci are my favourites too. Can you please tag me in your FB post, I would love to see your post. You can tag Croatia Honestly FB page.

  • Hello! Great article.:) I really liked visiting Croatia, it is so incredibly beautiful. And in my experience, I found that every person on the street was actually really nice and warm. People smiled to me in the streets and offered help without me even asking. I didn’t have trouble connecting with the locals at all. But it might have been because I was walking around with a giant smile in my face, I was just really happy to be in such a beuatiful place 😀 Also, after reading, this I can’t stop noticing how many things we portuguese have in common with the croatians! It’s amazing. I didn’t know. Even the part of hanging in a cafe instead of a bar 😛 we can spend a whole day in a cafe, just drinking bear, eating some food and laughing with our friends. And we have lunch with our family on sundays too! Sundays is family day. How can two countries not near each other have such similar mentalities.. It’s interesting. Hugs from a portuguese girl

    • Thank you, Mariana! I believe the similarities come from both our cultures being closely related to the Mediterranean way of life 🙂 Geography is powerful!

  • Kudos for the great circle theory! But, there is more. What distinguished the old Communist block from the rest of the world was a certain stone-faced attitude towards foreigners. Croatia is kind of half-way out of it. Then, for some strange reason, people have a hard time understanding that kindness is a real virtue and it makes life much easier. Some “sub-circles” celebrate grumpiness as the most natural way a person could be (!). The smiles are fake (?). The truth is that some just don’t know better, because they are extremely rude to each other in that most inner circle called family. I suggest you start a blog in Croatian about manners and see what response you get:)

  • OMG, this has been the most incredible review about the insights of a foreign culture. The points made could fit so well into not only Croats but also with other Europeans. Americans have so many casual (meaningless) acquaintances compared to European’s value of true faithful, meaningful friendships. It’s a cultural thing of closeness with Europeans, while Americans are always moving, looking for the next great advancement or achievement.

  • Very interesting! I was thinking of going to Croatia this summer and I was looking exactly for something like this… just one question (it will probably sound bad): I’ve heard some Croats don’t like Italians because of our past history… is it just a myth? Or should I expect that when I’m there?

    • A myth is a myth, not a fact 🙂 Just go with the flow and make friends with the real people. If there are any leftover myths, they’ll soon be dispelled once you connect face to face with people…

  • I want to contact Mr. Anto Lucevelic who I worked with, in South Africa and I would also like to meet-up with Captain Antisic (Captain of the Marco Polo cruise ship), when I will be in Croatia from 03 October to 17 October 2018.

  • I plan to visit Croatia in October 18 and I am eternally grateful to have found the most common sense advice from your Zagreb honestly I will certainly now. Be more able to enjoy my time Thanks to your help.

  • I lived in Croatia for two years and in that time I tried many ways to befriend locals but most of the people I met tried in some way to take advantage of me, either through goodwill or money.

    Being female and from Canada, I lost count how many times I was disrespected by having an opinion. I learned quickly that I am a foreigner here and that my opinion does not matter, I would hear “sta ti znas” (what do you know) or “Meh “Amerikanci” (Americans). I am from Canada! Not that it mattered.

    I agree that everyone does complain and I found it funny at first but after a while it wears on you and brings you down. People do not smile on the street and I do agree that people do not like friendly chit chat, which for me makes my day better & does not cost anything. I grew to hate the country. Despite its natural beauty there is not much else I can say for it. The mentality of people is about 75-100 years behind the rest of Europe. I would never visit again. IMO – Croats are rude, closed minded people that don’t smile & are not very welcoming.

      • Lara Im a Croat, living in Zagreb and I share your views. But there is much more. Article is okay but dont cover all. Croats are first of all xenophobic. Trust me on this. Croats from one part od Croatia dont like Croats from other places of Croatia. Especially Croats from Bosnia and Herzegovinia. There is even one NGO which tries to unite Croats from Bosnia. Anyway Croats mostly dont like black people and muslims. Croats dont like Serbs and vice versa. But now for common Croat most dangerous problem is Herzegovinians.

        You know Croats have words for aliens…dotpenac furesht etc.

        What is more important Croats are mostly uneducated. Education system is bad. Health system is broken. Nepotism. Corruption is everywhere.

        Thats why many Croats left Croatia. Even if you have well paid job you are not sure if you need gov. health or if you go to court.

        Country is in spiritual ruins. Its a mess. To be true I believe that Croatia is failed experiment. Now since Croats oppose Balkan union I believe that in far far future Croatia will be devided between Italy and Hungary maybe Serbia.

        I belive its good for us. Maybe its wishfull thinking or mazochism…but there is one saying in Croatia – Croats were always bad rulers but good slaves. Its in our gene. We are sub dnk. Give us rule and in 20 years we will infested it with corruption.

        And more thing Croats are above all jealous. Jealousy and xenophobia. Any success in Croatia will not be tolarated.

        There is more but long story short thats it.

    • I’m sorry you felt that way….I did too. I had a friend who disliked the people she encountered in Croatia, but I decided to go there with an open mind, as I rarely have problems, despite being South Asian (it helps that I know a tiny bit of Croatian!), and am well-travelled. I did notice that people seemed cold and rarely smiled, but I have seen this kind of behaviour before, in other Eastern-Bloc countries.

      The thing that actually upset me the most was the casual racism I observed towards other people. One example, a couple of guys serving in an ice cream parlour energetically quizzed a couple of East Asian (Japanese, I believe) about their country, and once the customers left, the servers started pulling the corners of their eyes and babbling in faux-Japanese. I was next in the queue, and felt sick. I should have just walked out, but my partner went ahead and ordered so I uncomfortably made my order and left quickly. This was in the town square! Sadly, my impression of Dubrovnik has not been good….

  • Hello! I am an American but My last name is Croatian. I would like to find a Croatian pen pal with the same unique last name. I wish to travel to Croatia one day and it would be very nice to have a “friend” there when I go. If anyone reading this has a suggestion to finding someone to write to then please let me know. Thanking you!

  • Howdy from Texas! My father was from Croatia and I have several first cousins living on the Dalmatian coast. I visited when I was a child to meet my Nana and Dida. I returned with my father and mother and my children to share our heritage with them. My father has passed away but I would love to visit Croatia with my grandchildren. What should I do to prepare for a successful visit? I want to visit family in Dubrovnik and Zadar but I don’t want to miss the special places of the Dalmatian Coast. I love all the information you have shared on Zagreb Honestly!

    • Hi Lois, thanks for your comment. The Dalmatian coast is filled with must-see places 🙂 Maybe you could join my Facebook group Croatia Insider where you can ask more specific questions. We’ll be happy to give you all the suggestions. 🙂

  • Croats are very rude people. There is zero desire to “please” travelers. No smiles, no “hello” or greeting by hotel and restaurant personnel. We stopped taking it personally after 2 days of traveling in Croatia. It’s seems to be an ingrained Eastern European attitude. They also have a very limited ability to think outside of the box and make the customer happy.

  • Hi

    I found your article as I am still searching for answers as to why me and my husband were treated so badly on our holiday to Croatia in 2007.

    Everywhere we went it seemed like everyone hated us. We are from England and are quite quiet people and don’t make a fuss so I don’t think it was us being rude.

    The worst occasion was when we found a review for a nice restaurant in Split. The food was supposed to be good and the chef was a big jolly character who visited each table personally making sure everyone was OK. He was supposed to be funny and enjoy a laugh with the guests.

    We thought we’d try it one evening. We opened the door to see if there was a table. We saw the chef chatting happily to one table and waited by the door for someone to come over. When the chef noticed us he looked really angry and shooed us away with a hand gesture. He seemed quite annoyed that we were there. All we had done was arrive and wait by the door so we assumed it was a joke as there were empty tables we could have sat at so we thought he must be fooling around as that was his reputation. I chuckled along and gestured across the room to indicate we’d like a table for 2 please. He turned and squared up to us and beckoned us away more viscously with an angry face and arms shooing. We didn’t know what to do and we’re asking each other if he was joking. Before we knew it he’d picked up a dining chair and raised it above his head and was coming for us as if he was going to attack us with it! We were really shocked and left as quickly as possible. We don’t know what we did wrong.

    Another time, we went to a restaurant and ordered food and a bottle of house wine which was 5€. The waiter came back and said they had run out of house wine but he could suggest a nice local wine instead. We said ok. As the night went on we felt uncomfortable as the other guests were leaving we just felt uneasy by the atmosphere from the staff but couldn’t put our finger on why. The bill came and they had charged us 50€ for the local wine. This was more than all of the food put together and was well over budget for us. A few of them were standing together kind of menacingly, looking over. We realised we were almost the last guests in the restaurant. The staff felt threatening and we feared for our safety if we questioned the bill so we paid and left.

    Another time at an outdoor bar I ordered a cocktail from the drinks menu. The waiter came back and said he hadn’t got the one I wanted. I ordered another but he got annoyed that he hadn’t got that one either. I kept trying to order but the waiter became irate because I wasn’t understanding something. Afterwards when we had left with no drinks I realised he must have been saying he hadn’t got a particular ingredient and I must’ve been trying to order cocktails with that ingredient in. The original cocktails name was the same as the ingredient so it was an easy mistake. He was so annoyed with me and made me feel really stupid. He kind of shooed us away and we scuttled off not knowing what we had done. He treated us with complete contempt. It seemed very unnecessary as he hadn’t taken the time to explain properly and couldn’t be bothered to help.

    Everywhere we went we were treated with disdain. When we went to a kiosk to drop off our bags off for the day the lady treated the transaction like it was a huge inconvenience even though that’s all she did and we were customers using the service she provided. She seemed really angry with us for wanting to drop our bags off at her bags drop!

    There was something major or minor every day and it really spoilt our holiday. We would never go back. If I were to have to travel there for work and it happened again I would go around asking people what I had done wrong as I am so intrigued to know!

    We were wondering if one of us looked like someone famous who the Croatians hated. My husband looks German and so we wondered if they hated Germans. We couldn’t think why we would be hated so much. We were being really careful to be friendly and polite but it didn’t make any difference.

    What did we do wrong??!

    • I think you just didn’t have much luck with the people you crossed your path with. What usually happens is that people have a mix of both great and not so great experiences and then the great ones overshadow the bad ones. In your case, too many bad ones left a bitter taste in your mouth. I am sorry to hear that.

  • I have been visiting Croatia since the Yugoslavian days and have found a good way to gain respect from Croatian people is to learn some of the language. There are plenty of phrasebooks and online apps to help you. They do appreciate your efforts as it is a difficult language to learn. Just a “Dobar dan” and a “Hvala” will be appreciated. Or impress them even more by saying “Učim Hrvatski” (I am learning Croatian) Don’t worry about making a mistake, they will gladly correct you.

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